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Why Forgiveness Matters

by Dr. Randy Kamen Gredinger Life Lessons
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I remember my father telling me to “let it go. Don’t hold onto it, just let it go.” I also remember thinking, ‘I don’t know how to let it go.’ When someone would do an injustice to me, I could not figure out how to move forward in the face of being hurt or disappointed. [...]

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My Last Goodbye: Loss and Grief

by Dr. Randy Kamen Gredinger Life Lessons
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My mother asked me to come with my young family from our home in Boston to New York City to visit her and my father for Labor Day weekend. It had been a couple of months since we last saw each other. We exchanged words and I told her I was simply too busy to [...]

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Welcome to Dr.RKG – What Women Need – Video

by Dr. Randy Kamen Gredinger Life Lessons

Throughout our lives we are faced with challenges, transitions and losses. How can you find the strength and grace to let go of what is lost? It is about thriving…not just surviving.

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My Empty Nest

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Saying goodbye to my daughter, Amy, brought up memories of my going off to college. I also felt infused with a sense of loss in the pit of my stomach. I ached for my girl. I had to remind myself it was a different experience when I left for college, because I knew I would [...]

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Viva La Difference

by Dr. Randy Kamen Gredinger Communication
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Last night my husband and I attended a stunning performance of Stravinsky’s Petrushka by the Boston Symphony Orchestra. At the intermission I asked him what he was thinking about during the concert. He said with a smile that he imagined old Bugs Bunny cartoons. At first I felt annoyed that his mind had not drifted [...]

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Beneath Anxiety and Depression

by Dr. Randy Kamen Gredinger Balance & Happiness
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Susan’s teenage children are acting out. Her aging parents want more of her time and attention. Her mother is beginning to show signs of dementia and her father wants Susan to help him navigate through this challenge. When Susan comes for her weekly therapy sessions she reports experiencing anxiety and depression. She often vacillates between [...]

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Be Here Now

by Dr. Randy Kamen Gredinger Life Lessons
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Nothing during my rigorous training to become a psychologist thirty years ago prepared me to be in the present moment. We focused on anxiety, depression, loneliness, suffering, isolation, abandonment, post-traumatic stress and other disorders. Even back then the emphasis on these words and diagnoses did not quite resonate with me. Alternative therapies began to emerge [...]

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Gratitude: The Experience of Thankfulness and Appreciation

by Dr. Randy Kamen Gredinger Balance & Happiness
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Sometimes I get caught up in the feeling of what’s missing and what I don’t have. Invariably this brings me to a familiar dark place. I have learned that when this feeling arises it is my cue to get back to basics. I need to remember what is good and the gifts in my life. [...]

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Friendship: Overcoming Disappointment

by Dr. Randy Kamen Gredinger Friendship
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Beth and Robin were inseparable friends while their children were growing up. They met when their oldest boys began preschool together. They each had three children within months of one another. Throughout their pregnancies they supported each other through many of the physical, psychological and parenting demands that they faced. Their husbands were off for [...]

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